Love

Kelaiah_ wrote:

I wish I've never tasted the pain that love brings. Sometimes I think I would be happier if I have never fell in love at all.

But then again, I don't regret a thing.

True..Love can be excruciatingly painful. I remember how badly I was stuck in the spiral of depression when my ex and I fell foul and he ended up blackmailing me for a few months on end. I cried at the slightest things, I stopped eating and have consequently become irreversibly 'ill'. It just felt like a complete betrayal of trust and yet some part of you can still find some feelings for the other for a while afterwards. Crazily enough - I don't regret my earlier days with him. Much. :huh: Back when it was innocent and honest 'love', I guess.

Lately I'm not sure what's on my ex's mind. She started warming back up to me, asking for my attention and guidance. Telling me she wanted me to hold her and that she missed me. It's impossible for us to return to our previous relationship. She even has a new man now. Any clues as to what exactly is happening?

She might be regretting something, her new relationship could be a 'rebound' and was an attempt to 'replace' you, or she just realises what she's lost?

Either way, just don't get back with an 'ex' as generally, it doesn't bode well. There's usually a reason two people cannot work and it's not often people 'change', no matter how much they claim to. One of my ex-boyfriends was doing the same to me, despite me being happily with someone else now. The fact he still tries despite knowing I'm with someone doesn't show that he 'loves me a lot', it just shows that he hasn't changed one bit.

Yes I am atm or the presence of it, I found a person I would enjoy spending the rest of my life with, but I have been single since Feb. 14th 2004, so I am taking things rather slow atm.

love brings pain is something that can not be changed, but when love is real suffering is eliminated

I wouldn't say that suffering is eliminated when love is real. It's still there. It's just not important anymore.