Let's talk about sex...

Anastasia13,

\"sexually\" I found myself more in meeting my man. Because it allowed me to dare some thing that I dared not do before him. Because I was afraid that people judge me ...
Sex it's natural, normal and not pervert in a good and respectful relation of mutual love.

Bonjour Sisters and Brothers members of The Order Of Algoth,


I'm really glad that this subject has peaked your interest.

Thank you all for your (honest) responses.



Mes hommages.

T.

Thurysaz wrote:

Bonjour brother Aftermidnigth,

You do not think we could talk about this here?
That's just a difference between two different sensibilities. Because, to me, it is a quite common and normal. So why not talk to my brothers and sisters of the order?

Mes hommages.

T.

I didn't mean we shouldn't talk about it! It's just we tend to talk about more gothic-specific stuff here. I half wondered if this was going to be about gothy fetishes or something. But instead we have a frank and mature debate about sex. It proves we (as a group) can talk about anything at all...

Daruma

So true, I really like that too. Dare to take risks.

Well, back to Bush: he's the most hated president of the USA. And he got reelected. I absolutely don't like what he's done, and... well... how can you even think it that way, I wonder. But, there's some logic to it. No good logic tho, nothing that will end in logic. But he got reelected... buy the people who didn't like him. (Or, by his brother working for the counting... hm)


Sexual education in all honour - we got too little of it, that's for damn sure. But even as the information about pregnancies and diseases is the most important one, I believe education about orgasms and the like should be vital. I don't know the problem guys have, but most girls go their whole lifes without having an orgasm - and if they have, it may be only a few times.
As a girl, it's so hard to really be able to enjoy sex - at least as much as is possible. And when you have only porn and the like to learn from, it's all going to get worse. There you only see the utopia - what 'should' be, but never is. At least for girls, this can be very misleading.

And to something alsmost related - (does english even have a proper word for it?) the monthly period. I've heard girls that believed the bleeding was because of a creature inside them, eating them. Who wouldn't be terrified to start bleeding from such places, if they didn't know what it was? Sure, most mothers educate their daughters, but some too late. And some only say that the bleeding indeed is a demon inside, because you're a girl. Christianity, you know.

I didn't vote for Bush. Ugh.

And my daughter, who is just barely 9, has known what a period is (the medical and biological reality of it) for years. She understands how a body works. She doesn't know much about the mechanics of sex, but she does understand the basic functions of a female body. I think it is important for this to be explained to all young girls. I can't imagine not understanding what was happening, and then being told you had a demon in you! How disturbing! I think that is child abuse!