Love

I think love is something that takes over you whether you like it or not. Every time I fell in love my mind opposed it, because every time something was wrong. But I always follow my heart when I'm in love and I do a lot of things I wouldn't dare to do otherwise. When I love, I really don't care about anything else and I can't say that's necessarily a good thing.
I'm still so in love :kiss: But I don't think marriage is proof you love someone. You don't need papers to prove you want to be with somebody.

I find people who say they never want to get married are selfish people.

why is that, Highwayman?

Highwayman wrote:

I find people who say they never want to get married are selfish people.

I agree. I also think they're not capable of loving. Not really.

I don't agree at all. I sure would like to hear a solid argument

Zenith wrote:

I don't agree at all. I sure would like to hear a solid argument

Why don't you give us a solid argument why not to marry?

Marriage has a lot of practical benefits from the legal side, makes easier to proves some facts etc.
If marriage is only a piece of paper for some, where is the problem then? If you want to live with someone and have all the benefits of marriage, then go get married, if you don't, then don't expect to get the benefits.
If you love your partner, you'll love him also after you get married and that \"piece of paper\" won't change anything, if it does, then what the fuck were you doing together?
A relationship is a commitment not a playground. If you're scared of marriage because it looks like it's something final and non-reversible, no it's not. You can always get a divorce. Probably it's harder to divorce a marriage, then to just pack up your things and move out of a relationship when you haven't been married - but if you're with a single person for 15 years and you weren't married, didn't have a cohabitation contract, you made something in that relationship (you bought a house together, opened a shop etc.) and everything was on your partners name, you would probably want to have your piece of the cake; now go and prove you have a right to half of that house, shop etc.